Anonymous
Anonymous
This is hard for me. ive never told any well . well here goes. It first started when i went to a party with my best friend Rachel. She is a couple of years older then me and so were her friends but she said she would look after me.
We arrived at the party and i saw a guy across the room who was really nice. i later found out his name was paul.
Well after about an hour of being there Paul came over to me. He said all the usual stuff like you look really nice, i cant believe ur single u know all the regular stuff. but i thought it was nice and so was he.
We went up stairs and sat in the spare bedroom for some peace and quiet so we could talk. I trusted him , or so i thought. Thats when it started going wrong. We walked in the room and i sat on the bed, He bolted the door behind him but i guessed it was just for privacy. I didnt think anything of it, Well until he leant over to kiss me. i thought it was a bit strange seeing that we hardly knew each other.
He said to me that he wanted a little fun. He picked up and throw me on the bed so i was laying down. He tied my hands to the head board. i tryed to strugle but he had to much force. He then tied me feet to something i cant quite remember wat. I started to scream but the music was to loud, untill there was a knock on the door. Paul got up to answer it and i tried to get untied but they were to tight. His friend walked in the room called Dave and Paul bolted the door. I couldnt say anything cause i couldnt stop crying. Dave walked over to me and started to remove my clothing i couldnt move the rope was to tight. He removed my pants and then i felt his fingers go inside of me. i tryed to move so they came out but i wouldnt work. I just layed crying hoping the nightmare would end.
The next thing was he removed his fingers and shoved his whole fist. Itb felt like i was being torn apart. But there was nothing i could do. He removed his fist and then Paul started sucking my nipples while Dave was shove things up my pussy. Anything he could find bottles, Hairbrushers, everything. i couldnt stop crying.
Then i saw Dave and Paul undress and then Dave shoved his penis inside of me and paul rolled me over and and shoved his penis in my arse, It was hell. They kept doing foreplay to me and making me perform oral sex to them. this went on for about two hours. No one from the party even noticed i had gone.
The worst thing i got shoved up me was the handle of a broom stick. When they had finished they got dressed, untied me , chucked me my clothes and told me to get dressed. I felt so sore and dirty. Once i was dressed they shoved me against the wall and they both snogged me and told me i was fantastic and shoved me out the door. I could hear them laughing, i ran down the stairs and didint stop running untill i reached my house. Luckily no one was in soi ran straight upstairs and a shower. i felt so dirty. i was in the shower for an hour trying to clean my self but i still felt horrible.
This happed six months ago and i havent told anyone except my best mate. She stands by me and i just hope that the hurting will disapear soon. i am only 14.
Thank u 4 listening to my storie. i hope it helps other people
-Anonymous
I was in a relationship with this guy name Richard.We were together for three years the first year was a dream he treat me so good he'd gave me his shoulders to cry on and no matter what he'd always be there for me.Well I guess around the second year things started getting bumpy I was now seventeen and living with him.Thats when he started hitting me he just started hitting me for know reason at all.I was a young girl and stupid I thought I should be hit because I was doing careless things.He'd hit me for not answering the phone,forgetting to wash his work clothes, or any little stupid thing.He wanted me to do everything he said which I did.Oneday Richard came in the house drunk and he started feeling on me I was pushing his hands away.He said"Nisha girl you shouldn't wait for marriage to lose your virginity" i said "baby you know how I feel about this now".Then he ripped my shirt,bra,and panties off.I was shaking because I didn't knew what was coming up next.He slap me and he then dragged me into our bedroom.He said "bitch stand up" so i stood up and he pushed me onto the bed.He pushed my legs open and i gave all my strength to keep him off me but he acted like he didn't feel me pushing him off of me.Finally I was worn out I stop trying thats when he stuck his fingers in my vagina and I start crying.I just clothes my eyes and prayed this was a nightmare this could't be happening to me but everytime I opened my eyes he was there on top of me.Richard then began to spread my legs out wider and he then began going in and out.I screamed but seemed like my cry was not heard .I prayed to god that this would end right now but it didn't he began going faster thats when I saw blood.He then got off top of me I thought to myself "it's over now go to your moms"but I was wrong he then told me to get on my knees I did as I was told then he hold his penis up to my mouth and told me to suck it I turned my head the other way.He then left out of the bedroom and came back with a knife he said if I didn't perform oral sex on him that he would kill me.So I did as I was told because I wanted to see my family again.After that he took the board you chop vegetables on and hit me four times what happen after that i don't no i woke up at the hospital.I found out Richard took me to the hospital telling the doctors he found me on the bathroom floor lying helplessy.I didn't break up with him because I just thought it was a mistake and he wouldn't do it again.I was wrong three months later I got out of the hospital.About two months after I got out of the hospital Richard started going back to his same ways.He came home with some friends to watch a football game and he called me in the room.I went round in the room and he gave me a kiss gently on my lips I was surprised.Then I saw him unzip his pants and pulled out his penis I knew what he wanted to do so I did.His friends told me to get up because I deserved better than that but I didn't listen.The boys told Richard it wasn't cool what he was doing he told them to leave and they did.We were having sex everyday anytime he wanted it.The baddest thing happened I got pergant.He accepted the child and was happy he was having one I thought the child would solve all my problems.While I was pergant Richard still hit me , punch,slap me,kick me in my stomach,and cut me.Oneday he got in jail for drug charges he was going to prison for three years.I was willing to wait for him but he broke up with me because he was seeing my sister.I cried on my way back hom from seeing him .I sat on my bed and got a gun hold it to my head and was about to pull the trigger when my best friend till this day Kim stopped me.She sat me down and told me to tell her everything that went on.I did and it really helped me a lot.Sometimes I have flashbacks but I don't think about them that much I just focus on my present and future.I know some people stories don't turn out as good as mine.I finally met Mr.Right.He knows about Richard and he helps me cope with my problems step by step.Unfortuatley my baby died.Whomever is reading this story don't feel sorry for me because I don't feel sorry for myself.I think I should have left the relationship from the beginning.After all my life is better now I'm going to college to get my business degree so I can open up my own salon.Richard is out of jail and now living with my sister.He says he's told me sorry a thousand times and i frogave him you can't go on with life hating someone forever.I'm blessed my life has turned out this well I have my family,friends,and GOD for helping me.
P.S.
To anyone male or female who has been abused or is still being abused do me a favor and leave the relationship.To my survivors live your life don't look back.I know it's hard to forget about the past but just focus on the present and future.Don't blame yourself because it's not your fault you didn't no it was going to happen you didn't have any control of what was going to happen.Thanxs a lot for reading my story if you want to talk to me personally e mail me at NISHA_AKA_LILMAMA03@yahoo.com
Love,
Kanisha
I dont know where to begian so ill just start with what i remember. I come from a big family i have five sisters and two brothers. My mom didnt graduate collage right away. She went back to school when i was in second grade. I have two older sisters and the oldest would be in charge ill just call her "Penny." My mom and dad made me lay in there room until my sisters who i shared a room with fell asleep. When my mom would go to night school 45 minutes away Penny would came in and lay by me. Then one night she started fingering me. I told her to stop but she just kept going. THen she preformed oral sex on me and made me touch her. Every week when my mom would go to school and my dad would drive her down to the campus Penny would make me do things with her. I started to hate her. But i also started to feel ugly on the inside and on the outside. Like i didnt desreve to be loved. The rape continued up intil i was in 6th grade.
I am now 18 ive never had a good relationship. I have concluded from what happend that i have to have sex with somebody in order for them to love me. I have had 7 relationships sense my sister started touching me only three of which became sexual.
This summer i was holding my youngest sister who is five and i started tickling her. She was squirming and i accidently touched her. I flipped out i started crying i begged my sister, well call her "Bri" to forgive me that it was an accident and it well never happen agian. After that i got depressed agian i hated my self for touching her even though it was an accident. I dont want Bri to go thru the same thing i did. Or any other person not even my worst enmy. The hatred felt for the peson who did it or the person who it happend to is very powerful.
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