After Silence -Rape and My Journey Back: Nancy Venable Raine's account of her rape and recovery, as well as her profound observations about how society and people help and hinder the recovery of rape survivors. I found this book to be triggering, but excellent.
The Laid Daughter: An autobiographical account of incest by Helen Bonner. I haven't read this book, but people who have say that it helps normalize the aftermath of child sexual abuse.
Telling: Patricia Weaver Francisco's memoir of rape and her recovery
Surviving the Silence: Black women's stories of rape and survival. Author Charlotte Pierce-Baker recounts her story and the stories of other black women she interviewed. A powerful book for all survivors to read, regardless of race.
Because I Remember Terror, Father, I Remember You: Sue William Silverman recounts her the story her abuse by her father and her recovery, with the support of her therapist and husband. A mesmerizing book, that tells us what we need to know. Healing is possible if we work hard.
Aftermath: Violence and The Remaking of a Self: Susan J. Brison's survival story as well as her philosophical musings on the difficulties of recreating a shattered self after rape, or any trauma.
Moving On: Australia's Louise Phillips tells of her rape, by a stranger, and recovery. An excellent book, told in a distinctly Australian voice.
I Have Life Allison's journey through sexual assault to healing
Beauty Restored: Me Ra Koh, a Christian, writes of her rape and how her religion helped her heal. Intertwined in the story, she includes a parable. This book presents interesting ideas, Christians and non-Christians alike.
The Truth About Rape A terrific book! I'm excited to read this new book written by a survivor, who counsels other survivors.
Lost Faith to Living Faith: Ren R. Royal, the author says, "I am a preacher’s daughter, I was an orphan in Seoul, Korea and was adopted into a Lutheran preacher’s family.  I was raised with the faith, but many circumstances in life have contributed to my loss in faith, and then I found faith again, even stronger, and I wish to share this story of hope with other women, other victims of rape and abuse."
Living for Today: Erin Merryn - The sequel to Erin's book, Stolen Innocence. Erin cultivated the strength to face her abuser and eventually facilitated and experienced relief from years of emotional restlessness, while also igniting the beginnings of a new fearless journey. Living for Today chronicles that journey, which began with the unearthing of private shame and releasing of ugly memories and letting go of guilt and becoming the mouthpiece of millions of her generation.

Healing Guides
Resurrection After Rape by Matt Atkinson (Added August 2009)
This is a new and terrific addition to recovery literature for female survivors. Subjects covered include: Survivors and sexuality, why rape happens , how to tell if a therapist is competent in dealing with sexual assault, panic attacks, and much, much more. The author, a rape trauma therapist has made free downloads of this book available for a limited time - please go here and see for yourself.
Real Rape, Real Pain: Help for Women Sexually Assaulted by Male Partners: This book by Patricia Easteal and Louise McOrmond-Plummer breaks new ground in international rape recovery literature.
Recovering from Rape: Straightforward, this book by Linda Ledray provides a guide for rape survivors
Sexual Assault: Will I Ever Feel Okay Again?: A Christian survivor's guide to healing from sexual assault
Beginning to Heal: Ellen Bass and Laura Davis' book for survivors beginning the healing process, also an excellent resource for secondary survivors who want to understand what their loved ones are going through
The Courage to Heal: Laura Davis' book guiding survivors of child sexual abuse to healing
The Courage to Heal: An excellent workbook written specifically for female survivors of sexual abuse, but it contains ideas that are relevant for all of us
The Wounded Heart: A book offering hope for survivors. A companion workbook can also be bought, but I've not read it.
When Your Child Has Been Molested: A parent's guide to healing and recovery
It Happened to Me A teen's guide to overcoming sexual abuse
Safe Passage To Healing: A guide for survivors of ritual abuse
The Gift of Fear: Not exactly a healing guide, but this book is a great guide about recognizing danger, for survivors who are feeling vulnerable.
Victims No Longer: Mike Lew's groundbreaking book for mal survivors of child sexual abuse and incest
Abused Boys: The Neglected Victims of Sexual Abuse: For men, by Mic Hunter
The Sexual Healing Journey: Wendy Malt's excellent guide for survivors who are trying to recover their sexuality

Social Perspectives on Sexual Violence
I Never Called It Rape: The Ms. Report on recognizing, fighting and surviving date rape. This ground-breaking book brought acquaintance rape to the forefront of social consciousness years ago and has been updated to include recent information.
Confronting Rape and Sexual Assault: Essays written about sexual assault from various social science perspectives
Transforming A Rape Culture: A series of 34 essays written about why rape exists and what we must do to eradicate it.
Against Our Will: Men, Women, and Rape: Susan Brownmiller's groundbreaking book offering historical perspective on rape and why it exists

Survivor Sites

Welcome to Barbados: Shannon's Tori Amos inspired site for survivors of sexual violence.
Escaping Hades: An informative and personal page for survivors created by Lis
Hope for Healing: A comprehensive, Christian rape recovery page
Over the Rainbow: Stephanie's beautiful Wizard of Oz themed survivor site. Many UK resources and other interesting discussions such as rape themes in theater.
Abused, Empowered Survive: UK based, for survivors of sexual abuse
A Gift From Within: Beautiful site created by a survivor to raise awareness about DID and Ritual Abuse.
Rape Crisis Information Pathfinder: Pixie's site with a compendium of information for survivors. Particularly helpful for LGBQT survivors.
Rainbow Hope: A comprehensive site for lesbian survivors and their partners
Survive: A UK based survivor's site
Rubbed the Wrong Way: A site for people who have experienced sexual assault by a massage therapist.
Dancing in the Darkness: Vera's terrific and resourceful site.
Surviving the Memories: Donna's very musical survivor site. See her Survivor's Jukebox
hollykdunn.com : Holly is the only known survivor of the railroad serial killer, and has done incredible work as a survivor.
Aphrodite Wounded: Louise's comprehensive site for survivors of marital and other intimate partner rape
Sexual Abuse Recovery: A personal page, with excellent links
Hope Heals: A wonderful personal site, create by Melanie
Inocencia Interrumpida: A beautiful Spanish site for survivors of child sexual abuse
Soul Survivors: A site aimed at black women, men and children across the world who have been affected by sexual violence
A Lily or A Rose: A site for survivors of bullying and abuse
Rape-Related Pregnancy and Pregnancy Loss: A survivor's site with loads of great resources and information
Trust Betrayed A site for teenagers. Explores dating violence and it's effects.
Remember to Breathe: Niffer's site for survivors of multiple sexual assault.
Healing After Rape: New! Evelyn's site for survivors of date and other rape.

Survivor Organizations

AARDVARC - Loads of articles and resources for survivors of rape and domestic violence, as well as those seeking to understand.
WomensLaw.org - This web site is an excellent nationwide online resource for women and girls who have experienced sexual assault. Find state-by-state sexual assault laws as well as many suggestions for help.
Ritual Abuse, Crime and Healing Information and Resources for Survivors of Ritual Abuse, Therapists and Others
Take Back the News: An activist group aimed at combating media misrepresentation of sexual assault.
About Incest and Abuse: An informative site, with chat and forums
Rainbow Network: Australia's survivor site for men
RAINN: The web page of the United States' only toll-free, confidential and 24 hour telephone crisis line.
Making Daughters Safe Again: Support and resources for survivors of mother-daughter sexual abuse. 
SNAP - Survivor Network of those Abused by Priests (Catholic), 312-409-2720
One in Three Women A global initiative aimed fighting global violence to women
Survivors Treehouse Online support forum, chat, and other information for adult survivors healing from childhood abuse and other trauma.
Ritual Abuse Educational resources and research related to ritual abuse-torture

Post Traumatic Stress

A Gift From Within: An international organization dedicated to those with post traumatic stress, with terrific articles.
The Sidran Foundation - Helping people understand, recover from, and treat trauma and dissociation.

Eating Disorders

Mirror Mirror: Eating disorders support and awareness
Something Fishy: A pro-recovery site offering information and online support
Caring Online: To bring hope and save futures and lives
Gurze.com: A commercial site selling all manner of books related to eating disorders
National Eating Disorders: Tons of printable information
About Face: Creating media awareness

Self Injury

Secret Shame: A comprehensive site for self injurers
SIARI: UK based resource for self-injurers
A Self Injurer's Community: Includes chat and support groups

Suicide

If you are thinking about suicide: Inspiration to keep on fighting through suicidal feelings.
Suicide Help: Hotlines and advice for those who are suicidal and their loved ones.
Befrienders International: An international directory for those who need to talk to someone about suicidality.

Depression

About Depression: A comprehensive site about depression, it's causes, and treatments.
Wings of Madness: A supportive site, with a chat room and message boards.
Healing Well: Articles, support and a community.

Addictions

She's in Recovery Great information about recovery

Healing Articles

Rape Trauma Syndrome: The Journey to Healing Belongs To Everyone by Amy Menna, LMHC, CAP
Peaceful Heart: A Woman's Journey of Healing After Rape by Aimee Jo Martin
Pandora's Aquarium Articles - Many many aspects of sexual assault and healing

Mental Health Information

Mental Health Matters Many mental health resources and articles.